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banned again Existance and SWAPPERNET sucks. Ok, I know that out there some of you single men are still reading this and I need your help. Will give you the sob story first but I really hope that you will take action on my behalf here. -sigh- where in assholia to begin? I almost met a couple the other day. I felt guilty though as I was going out. The only reason I was going was because they weren't interested in spk and we had talked while the pair of us were on hiatus. anyway, I felt bad about it, really bad, I love him and I knew that it wasn't going to click because I didn't want it to click. Through the emails with the male half, the girl claims that she is too busy to do the setting up but I am sure that she is just along for the ride, I got the impression that my soft swap rule wasn't what he wanted but was something that he would agree to temporarily. He also pressured me by putting forth the hope that we could play the first night because "we never get a sitter so we want to make the night a good one" despite my informing him that I want a relationship not a piece of ass. So I felt like shit and was supernervous...I should also mention that I was dumb and agreed to a blind meet...so I sat in the bar waiting and I stayed there for ten mins past the meeting time and then I left. I have other shit to do you know. anyway, on the way home I was talking to spk and apologizing for even trying this and they phoned. I didn't want to tell them no so he offered to have them call him and he would tell them to back off. well, I did and he claims that they hung up on him, etc. I thought all was well except maybe we made a bad move the way we did it but they would get over it. here comes the sobby part y'all. well, I got home yesterday and turned on my phone to discover to my surprise and pissedness that several people had left messages inquiring about whether or not I was into what my ad said in my favorite local bar bathroom. you can bet I was horrified. Guys called and girls called intimating that I was some superfreaky chick and they all really wanted to party with me. my world fucking shattered. I phoned spk at work, cried on his shoulder and he came out to comfort me. I really just wanted to die and have the things off of the walls. we went out and got a camera from work to get the evidence of slander so that we could deal with this. I was unsure if I really wanted to see what horrible shit they said about me or not so I hung back. we got there, checked both genders and nothing. nothing at all on the walls. we talked to management and our fav waitress and she said that they keep the place pretty clean but she will keep her eye out for things like that. It gets worse. Well, I was violated. I changed my number. I still feel that I did not deserve this merely because I rejected somebody. I met these assholes through swappernet.com though and they have an abuse reporting feature and I used it. I posted a warning on my profile, I posted warnings across the message boards not to trust these people because they will betray you, and I sent a nice letter to the owners to ban them. people like this should not be swinging. well, guess what happened? I bet those of you who know me well can put a twenty on this. SPK AND I GOT BANNED. I was thanked by several members of the site for my warnings and I was able to access it one last time but I did not know that was to be my last so I didn't do anything big with it. I know what they are doing to us is wrong because we aren't the ones who go about slandering people and hurting anybody like that and yet we are the problem and thus we are banned. so, I ask all of you out there in horny male land to please, PLEASE write to the webmasters at swappernet and let them know that they are completely out of line here. I am not asking to be reinstated, the place is a horrible place to meet people because everyone is playing mindgames, but I would really like an apology and I feel that if everyone sends one letter saying that they were wrong to do this and demanding an apology for me they might take the hint. If all else fails, it will clog their box and annoy the fuck out of them. so here is the email addy. please consider this as your Free Tibet project or something...because justice has been ill served. I just wish that I still had this couple's addy too. if you want to do a free profile and send some hate mail to Players84884 about how they destroyed any faith I had in people right now please do! I really wish that I had their yahoo email still because they would be getting some from me too. -hugs- thanks all. please hit me up on that favor if possible. will do the same for you if assholes strike. Daphne |