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Places can suck and people can suck too So I went to the Necto last night for about half an hour. Probably not even that. Jewboy and I each had one rum and coke and then we left. We like the cheap booze, each drink being only $1, but the environment kind of sucked. It would have been nice if I could have danced but the floor was deserted and I am way to shy to make an ass out of myself being the only one dancing to crappy 80s music like Prince. The strobes were what ran me out of there though. If I could have had three drinks or something I probably would have danced or at least tried to talk to someone, even though everyone was already in a group, but the strobes killed my eyes. We sat in a booth and I could not get my eyes out of their damn range so I nearly went blind. Jewboy admitted that they gave him a headache too so we left pretty quickly. I did get the chance to worm my way down to the bathrooms but I never found that red room where the lesbians are reputed to hang out. damn inaccessible lesbians! Anyway, even though we only spent half an hour out and I didn't even dip into the $20 I took out for the evening, Jewboy wanted to go home and work on his school stuff. This was highly unusual and I tried to change his mind but I soon gave up. He gave me a ride home, back to my Game Show Network Interactive Game Play, and yes my nerdy life. He doesn't suck though. The people who really suck are this couple that I had to talk to before I went out. I answered a few of the Wildside ads in the Metrotimes, which are sex personals for those non-Detroit folks, and that probably cost me about $40 to answer about 4 ads. Oh well. Anyway, one of the couples phoned me back and we had a nice chat until we got up to the condom factor. ARgghhh!!! I tried to get this out of my head before falling asleep last night but it REALLY pisses me off when men try to argue around not using condoms. It is almost as bad as haggling for escort services. the one local regular I thought that I would have still does that. He emails for an appointment and in the next letter he asks if I have discounts. I don't and that's that. The same goes for condoms, I just use them and that's that. Anyway, I doubt that they will be phoning back but it was really annoying to hear these 40+ adults trying to lecture me on how they play safely and how I will be fine with them because they screen people and they aren't dirty, etc. Follow that up with a long story of their last three years where they haven't been swinging and now they are getting back into it, blah blah blah...I am trying so hard on the line not to be a bitch but frankly I DON"T CARE!!! This guy is giving me the story of his life and if he obviously refuses to use condoms I am not screwing him. Not sorry either. So I get off the phone in the quickest way possible and I am fairly sure they won't be calling back. I got standards and they are pretty easy to follow. I like living for more pleasure. Part of me actually wonders, because they are local, that they might be the Mr. Bean and Manboobs couple that hit me up before. I doubt it but it gace me a good reason to not be raging about this. I hate missing an opportunity for either of us and these people seemed nice, until that problem, so I have to throw some other awful thing into my mind to justify my logical decision. Whatever. I am smart and not gonna die. I should give up trying to rationalize other's stupid decisions. He doesn't know what he is missing anyway. Fucker. Daphne |