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Discussion with Raven Yay!! I am going to go out tonight to the Necto or something and maybe I will be lucky and find some nice lesbians to dance with!! I doubt it, but one can always hope. I have been debating through the notes feature with Raven again on the immorrality of ponyplay. He seems to find it offensive to real ponies because it sexualizes them. Well, after reading the ponyplay section of Deviant Desires, most of the people into the practice enjoy it because it allows them to roleplay a more positive character than a slave. It also allows them to feel the sensuality of an animal and none of them seem to have any beastial desires. they do admit that some other people in the BD scene use ponyplay as a form of humiliation but most seem to agree that it is just fun to be horse for a change. Personally, I want to try it because I think it sounds interesting. Part of me even wants to start looking for a ponyboy, if any of you out there reading this want to carry someone around your back let me know ;). I was too fat as a kid to be picked up and since I lost the weight part of me is interested in seeing if I can ride someone else. I wouldn't want sex if I did find a good pony, but I think riding someone would be interesting. I also want to try and test myself and see about the sensuousness of being a pony with a rider. I haven't yet, due to lack of pushing the matter on Dan, but I am sure we will get around to it soon. That's what I love about him, he's okay with exploring weird new kinks with me. If he wasn't, I would surely have to get a new man! Raven also argued with me on the topic of the BD community being filled with unattractive people. i am not sure what his experiences were but from his last entry it sounded like you can only participate in sex if you are, well good-looking! I found that kind of elitist and called him on it. I didn't think he would admit it, but he did! Personally, I think everyone should be allowed to enjoy their form of sexual outlet without problems and everyone is capable of finding someone to pleasure themselves with, especially if you are a woman. I don't like the BBW part of the swinger scene but I tolerate it because I know that fat women are more likely to be slutty for the attention. I am rather attractive, I think, and so I get more attention (the age helps too) and I want to play with prettier women. I don't deny the fat chicks their outlet though just because they are fat. It's just not where I want to be. Anyway, Raven and I don't see eye to eye on that at all and it's kind of depressing. He seems to want to live his life in fantasy, because I doubt that he is ripped and gorgeous, and deny himself everyone except the perfect tiny looking girls whereas I want to have fun. Physical looks do mean a bit to me, but overall I have chosen partners more on personality than looks. But then again, I am a woman. So, don't mean to dog you Raven but I didn't have much else to share for the day! Hope your beautiful sex life works out for ya :) Daphne |