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Ethical Sluthood Morning everyone! Today will be a content day as I haven't done much. I must give a nod to Slutreviews however for spotting my non-argument and giving me a bit more credit where I thought it was due. I decided to change the layout around, the Barbie was getting dull, wasn't it?, but I haven't gone to an erotic layout. I blame this on the fact that I couldn't find any I really liked. Nothing pornographic or original enough for me...sad to say. I did, however, find a nice Bluntman and Chronic layout that I liked, I love comic books and pot!, but I refrained from using it because it didn't seem to fit. I have been pondering a multitude of topics for today but I am not sure which one will win out. I will do a quick plug for what I am reading thought. Sex in History is very comphrehensive and, so far, I would perfer an ancient Chinese approach towards sex as oppossed to our Western one. Yes, I would be living in a large harem but they thought that it was best for a man to screw lots of women and make them cum. So, I could almost live with that, as oppossed to sex is evil, which the Church gives us. hmmm...I guess today's topic shall be Ethical Sluthood, or what I consider Ethical Sluthood. I never read An Ethical Slut, although I will admit to having skimmed through it. Like most sex books, skimming is about all I need. (I am still saddened that I couldn't find that great fetish book when I got up some money to buy...but so it goes) It bases itself on pretty much what I base my philosophy on sex on: don't hurt people. Well, be nice/don't hurt people is the basis of most of morality. Extend this and you get: Daphne's simple rules for having sex: 1) use protection unless well known otherwise 2) don't get emotionally attached when you can't be emotionally attached 3) please everyone that way you will get invited back 4) don't complicate things 5) no means no 6) enjoy yourself! As sex is essentially a selfish act, though I will admit having taken a bomb or two in my day, enjoying oneself is the most important part of sex. One should remember that group sex is like a tea party though and everyone should have fun and not be left out (especially if you are hosting). So, that's why I give the basic manners in there too. The main basis for my ethical sluthood is to not screw up anyone else's life unneccessarily. Although I will admit this backfires at times, it is a good goal to strive for. That's about enough of that. For housekeeping measures, though I will mention it again tomorrow, we are coming clean with Spk's name: it's Dan...yeah I know boring. So no more confusing initials, but still nicknames when I can afford them. Well, that's a lie. I will probably still use initials for some people as they appreciate remaining nameless. Oh yes, I took down the tagboard. All those of you who love the tagboard will have to resign yourselves to using either the notes or the guestbook. Both work for non D-land people *I think*. I am sure Troma will let me know otherwise. Tis all for today! Daphne |