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Guys Night Out sorry for the late start and yes, I know, I will be hurting later for it. I got up around 11 though after a nice restful sleep and only now have gotten through the pile of UM mail and other shit that needed morning maintenance. Somehow I want to clean the house today but I think my goal for today, due to the late hour, will be to get through the last of the reading I need to do. I know that I planned to write the review today but I am not sure if I will get that far in five hours. I hope so, but I also know that I have 30 pages to go and my need to slack. So we'll see. If all else fails, and I know it will be late, I will write it tomorrow during the day before spk heads over. I know I need to structure my readings as well so maybe I can do that then too. Last night was all right, we turned in somewhat early. Jewboy and I invited Top Hat down from North Campus to join us and we all got messed up at Jewboy's house and played board games. Top Hat was rather tired so he called it a night rather early because he got drunk really quickly and then remembered that he had a 9am class to go to so he rushed home on the Nightride I think. Jewboy and I played a couple more games on our own but I wasn't feeling so good, although I do thank him for the weenie and cottage cheese he gave me earlier, so I decided to head home too after a while. I blame the not feeling so good on a lack of food and too much vodka. somehow I got it into my head that the twist bottles tasted appley and it didn't so I was drinking a ton of straight up vodka. not good. the night air cleared me up though and when I got home after a bit of insomnia I was finally able to sleep. Today is the girl's night out now that the boys have had some fun. D, Codi and I are going to get buzzed out at Codi's and wander her cute little park again. I enjoyed that a lot and I am really not in the mood to have sex with anyone until I see spk again, nothing personal D, so I would rather go out with the two of them and do something together to get D's mind off of her problems that smoke here and have sex. I can't really afford to hang out for a long time either so I will have to let her know nicely that once I sober up she has to get going so I can clean the house or study some more. It's nice to have friends lately but I feel like my social life might be getting out of control! I know part of it is my fault in that I don't unplug the TV enough but I need to learn to manage my time too. For reading this week, attack The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating by David M. Buss. You won't be disappointed. It's a very fun but scientific read that explains what women want, what men want, how we pursue sexual relationships, how we pursue partnerships and why. It is really helping me understand a lot more about my relationship with spk in paticular, I am slowly learning that a lot of my instincts and feelings are purely ingrained into me both through culture but also biologically, like my attraction to the computer science majors (I keep finding hot ones in my classes!) is probably due to my biology sensing that they have resources to invest in my and my children. trust me, it all makes sense and it's too long to list all the good points he makes but I am learning a lot about couple interaction and how biologically determined a lot of it is. wish me luck on the readings folks. I wish I had a good place to work on the laptop :( Daphne |