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Worst Weekend Ever The weekend sucked folks so I didn't update it. I kind of want to forget most of the whole thing. I didn't get jack shit done and everything spk and I tried to do backfired. Murphy's Law reigned supreme. Friday I spent reading the last of the book I needed to review. I still haven't written the actual review and I am a bit miffed about not getting around to it. It wasn't directly my fault and I enjoyed our attempts at entertainment but I still should have done something on it. Now I have to do it when I get home, ugh. We also went out with a couple that was a total mismatch. They were okay and nice people and all but we weren't sexually attracted to either one of them and they were both straight so unless the guy was worth it I wasn't doing anything, and he wasn't. Nice people to talk to but no spark. We went home pleading cramps. Saterday we tried to go to the IMAX dome in Detroit only to be forced to wait in an understaffed line for half an hour before the show. We got there 15mins ahead of time and when we reached the counter it was ten past and they refused to let us see Top Speed. They had three or four people standing around doing nothing the entire time we were in line and they could not figure out how to move us through faster. We were both VERY PISSED and yelled at the front desk people. yeah, me too...I really wanted to see the dome, so much for that idea. Anyway, there was a lot of cursing and they called Security but he was this fatass guard who couldn't keep up with us as we darted out of the building. Why do they hire those fatass guards anyway? They are going to be the first to be shot in a standoff...anyway, the Detroit Science Center has lousy service, mostly run by blacks who can't seem to figure out a computer screen at anything close to a normal speed, so don't go there. It's not worth the huge ass wait -by the way, the line wasn't hugomgous either...merely a normal size- and they do not take complaints well...damn black people and their uppity attitudes. so we headed home. I still wanted to go out and do something sexual but spk just kind of wanted to be with me. ok, we spend a lot of time yelling about the city of Detroit too and how horrible it is, but when we calmed down we did have a lovely heart to heart discussion about childhood and where the relationship is going and things that bug us, etc. That was one of the highlights of the weekend for me. I kind of didn't want to go out, but I felt that we should seeing as we had a horrible time during the day. and going out was another mistake! we had some drinks at the Brown Jug and then headed to Pinball Pete's -redhead sluts are too tame for me, I learned- where we got through maybe two good games of Simpsons Pinball when this threesome of guys wandered by and smoked the air full of piss. It was horrible. worse than the hospital. I figured that spk couldn't smell it like I could and I have been around that smell before so I could play through but he had to get out of there. OMG, he said the guy who did it must have pissed like a fifth into his drawers to get that scent. for a while I thought maybe it was a little drippage but it couldn't have been because once they passed, whichever one was peeing in his shorts, it stunk up the whole place and Pinball Pete's is Rather Large. Spk was wondering how I managed to finish the last game without puking but I did and we escaped. so onto Sunday...we went back to spk's house and we were playing around again on JMeeting, which isn't a bad cam site, and I wanted to do a show. I didn't know I was so demanding of spk and I am sorry, two inconsiderate things this weekend were this and my not calling him during the morning on Friday, but I threw our cam on and wanted to show off. well...things were okay for awhile but people kept PMing us, even though it says in the chatroom not to. usually if you speak up they are booted but we just like to watch other people cam and not be disturbed. we do like the feedback in the group board but PMs get distracting and annoying. well, we stopped doing what we were doing and asked the room if anyone knew how to turn them off. tried to explain the situation and got insulted and booted. a friendish told us how to turn them off finally through PM and that was good but we were very miffed about being thrown out. we went back in and tried again but then I had to fix the webcam because it's drivers were going wonky. once I got that up again it was time to get going to the lake and when we tried to show off again I was too tired to be really into it. the lake was okay though, the best actual activity all weekend. I wasted a lot of writing time out there but it was nice. I went swimming and the guys wakeboarded. the water was pretty warm and when it started to rain we stayed out on the island until I saw some lightning. we got back to spk's and watched the Kensignton fireworks up the street from his house. that was pretty cool. we had a bit of fun in the bedroom but nothing much because I was drop dead tired when we hit my house...I kind of wish that I wasn't so that we could do more but I was too tired to seduce so I just cuddled and fell asleep. so nothing went right this weekend. hopefully i will be in a sexual mood next weekend. I don't like this misalignment of cycles. I do like talking with spk and cuddling with him though and I wish that he didn't have to leave so early in the morning. It's nice to have someone to snuggle against just for that. now I need to find some time and work on my thesis. no more internet for me...all for him because I need to work and keep working. from what August looks like, I will be working at least part time so I will have no time to do anything more than I am now, which sucks because I am booked solid and I still feel like I am not doing anything. grrr.... still tired and wanting to cuddle. going to miss human contact over the next few days/years. pray my thesis turns out all right in the end. Daphne |